A MAN OR WOMAN’S DESIRE
Success, love, prosperity, happiness, and fame are some of things the average man desires to have. With this desire, comes feelings that if one can achieve one’s dreams, or if one could do just a little bit more, try harder or do things better. When things do not go as we hope, despite all efforts, it could lead to feelings that one is not good enough or in some extreme cases that success is meant for just some set of people.
WHO DEFINES YOUR SUCCESS?
Truth is success is how you define it! Success is never an end or a destination! Success is neither material nor singular. Success can be experienced everyday and in every aspect of our lives. Success, is ‘having a desire and realizing it’, ‘wanting a lifestyle, and getting to live it’. . .you define your success; Stop letting others dictate or define success for you. Whatever you want to be in life, the most important thing is ensuring you have the character and capability to sustain the success you have achieved. Being the best version of yourself can help us become and stay successful in life.
WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE IS WHAT YOU ATTRACT
As we all know, nobody is perfect and none will ever be, but anyone can always become a better version of themselves especially with the understanding that how people perceive you is how they receive or respond to you. And what we have is what we can give to others. Like we may have heard, ‘you attract what you are, not what you desire’. According to Rhonda Byrne, ‘we are like magnets’.
BECOMING A BETTER PERSON
The process of being a better person starts with self-awareness. Who are you? What do you desire to become? If you want to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be then you need to start living in such a way that your life becomes directed towards your desire so you can both reflect and attract it. If you desire to be loved be lovable; want to become rich, get the abundance mindset!
Develop attributes that will help you become and sustain whatever you want in life. Discipline, self-control, setting and achieving goals, integrity and contributing to people’s lives around us are indeed catalyst that bring about the desired change in our lives. So, Keep challenging yourself to become a better you. Always remember that every little change made daily accumulates to a transformed life as we explore more on this topic in the next few articles and we dive into some key attributes like ‘Patience, Confidence and Positive Thinking’.
I am excited to be on this journey with you. Keep being limitless.
Yours in possibilities,
Esther Sunkanmi Amoye